A Letter to My Deadbeat Dad
Dear Dad,
I have been meaning to write this letter for a long time, but it’s never been easy to put my thoughts into words. I want to express my feelings and thoughts about the way you have treated me and my family over the years. I hope this letter can help me find some closure and peace.
When I was a child, I looked up to you as a hero. You were the one who would always be there to protect me, provide for me, and teach me the values of life. But as I grew older, I realized that you were not the man I thought you were. You were a deadbeat dad, someone who abandoned his responsibilities and priorities.
Every time I saw you, I felt a mix of joy and pain. Joy because you were my dad, and pain because you were not living up to the expectations I had for you. I remember the times when you promised to be there for me, only to disappear when it mattered most. You left me feeling unloved and unwanted, as if I were just a burden to you.
As I grew up, I tried to understand why you acted the way you did. I read books, watched movies, and talked to friends, but I still couldn’t find an answer. I wondered if you were struggling with something, or if you were just a selfish person. Regardless of the reason, I can’t help but feel hurt and betrayed.
My mother has always been the rock in our family, taking care of us and making sure we had everything we needed. She has never asked for anything in return, and I admire her strength and resilience. I often wonder what it must have been like for her to carry the weight of our family alone, while you were nowhere to be found.
Even though you have not been a part of my life, I still have memories of you. I remember the times we spent together, the laughter, and the love. I know that you were once a good man, but I can’t ignore the pain you have caused us. I hope that one day you can find the strength to face your mistakes and make amends.
As I write this letter, I am not seeking forgiveness or revenge. I just want to let you know how much your actions have affected me. I have learned to be strong and independent, and I have found happiness in life despite your absence. I hope that one day you can find happiness too, and that you can look back on your life and see the mistakes you have made.
Thank you for reading this letter, Dad. I hope it has given you some insight into how your actions have impacted my life. I wish you all the best, and I hope that one day we can find a way to mend our broken relationship.
With love and hope,
Your Daughter
